Life is not what anyone expects. We have to work with what we got. It takes us to long t realize that you can’t fix all your problems with a few temporary solutions. It’s all one very long process. It’s never the way we pictured it but, we still work day after day trying to get it as close as possible. Look around and admire what you have. We always want what we can’t have. We all need to take a deep breath and be grateful for what you do have. Things might look different. I’m not saying you should stop there, i’m just saying don’t let it slow you down.